How to Spend $1,000 for a Wedding? 12 Steps to Create Your Dream Wedding

Weddings can be really costly. As per The Knot's data, the typical wedding in 2023 was priced at around $35,000. That amount is roughly similar to the cost of nearly 3 years of in-state college or the price of 28 brand - new iPhones!Photo by @endlessautumnphotography

• Venue rental: Average of $10,700
• Marriage license: Average of $60 (varies by state)
• Officiant: Average of $300
• Invitations: Average of $530
• Photographer: Average of $2,500
• Catering: Average of $75 per person
• Cake: Average of $500
• DJ or Live Band: $1,400 to $4,300
• Attire: Average of $2,150
• Flowers: Average of $2,300
• Hair and makeup: Average of $250

Check out our blog post, “Budget Wedding Planning Made Easy,” for a detailed breakdown of costs. It’s your go - to guide, offering practical advice and tips. Whether you’re just starting out or are knee - deep in the details, this post will guide you through every step, from creating your planning list to finalizing the smallest details.

Maximize Savings with a Micro Wedding
The bigger the wedding, the higher the cost. Each guest adds:
- An Invitation: $3 to $8
- A Chair Rental: $1.50 to $6
- A Plate of Food: Average $75 per plate
- A Slice of Cake: Cake cutting fees average $2 to $5

That’s about $87.75 per guest. With a $1,000 budget, you could easily spend it all on catering. But there’s a solution: the micro wedding.
Micro weddings are small - scale weddings with smaller guest lists, perfect for budget - friendly ceremonies. They typically have 50 or fewer guests, but you can make it even smaller. For every 10 guests you remove from your guest list, you can save around $877.50.Photo by @kevyndixonphotography

Hosting a micro wedding is not only budget-friendly but can also make your day more special. It allows you to focus on the people who truly matter.

Budgeting for a wedding under $1,000:
Find a free or budget-friendly venue. The venue is usually the biggest expense, with couples spending nearly $10,000 on average. This is tough with a $1,000 budget.
Consider these free or low-cost venue options:

- City hall: Free venue with an officiant and potentially stunning architecture.
- Your home or backyard: Free (excluding mortgage considerations).
- Family member’s house or farm: Likely free, unless a rental fee is charged.
- Local church: Around $200 for regular attendees or those who grew up there.
- National park: Typically between $50 and $200.
- Public beach: Some allow free weddings on a first-come, first-served basis; others have permits like California’s $100 - $150 Beach Wedding Permits.
- College or university: Some allow alumni to use event spaces for free if availability permits.

If none of these options appeal to you, check out platforms like Peerspace for budget - friendly wedding venues.

2. Choose Your Officiant Wisely

To get married, technically all you need is a marriage license, which ranges between $40-$100 by state. There’s not really a way around this expense, so you'll need to budget around what your state charges. Your wedding officiant on the other hand? Now, there’s an option to save there.

The fees for professional wedding officiants vary, depending on their experience level, what they bring to your ceremony, and whether they’re a religious officiant or a civil one. Either way, the average officiant’s fees total around $300.Photo by @noblephotoco

It's tough to hear when your wedding budget is super tight. But here's the thing - you don’t need tons of experience to be a wedding officiant. In fact, you might not need any experience at all. Some states don’t require a wedding officiant to be ordained conduct to a ceremony. So you could have a close friend or family member conduct your ceremony. If your state does require an officiant to be ordained, don’t worry. It’s also possible to get ordained online for free or for a small fee - often between $29 - $60.

Photo by @ZakJokelaWeddingPhoto

 Non-denominational or interfaith organizations that can help you get ordained include:

• American Marriage Ministries 
•  Universal Life Church Ministries 
•  Rose Ministries

Imagine how awesome it would be for your best friend to help you say “I do,” or for your brother to sign your marriage certificate. Not only can it make for a sweet and touching ceremony, but it’s also perfect for a budget-friendly wedding day.

Total Cost:  

While you don’t normally need to pay a family member or a friend who conducts your ceremony, it’s a nice gesture to offer something in return for all their hard work. Let’s go with a $50 gift or tip to say thanks.

3. Send E-Vites over Invites

Ready for some major sticker shock? Professionally designed wedding invitations cost an average of $530. If you’re not keen on spending half your budget on invitations alone, we’ve got another solution: the e-vite.

With digital websites like Canva, Cards and Pockets and Koala Ray ,it’s easy to design and customize templates for pro-quality invitations without the price tag. You can send them out via email - so no postage fees here. You can even track RSVPs online with services like:

• Online RSVP 
•  With Joy 
•  RSVPify

Total Cost:  

Free. No, seriously. While many of these services offer premium upgrades, they’re not necessary to send out awesome e-vites. If you play your cards right, you can come out totally free on this wedding expense!

4. DIY Your Wedding Cake

A cake from a bakery can cost upwards of $500. But box cake mix? That goes for around $2 per box (and that’s in 2022!) Sounds like a good reason to roll your sleeves up and bake your own cake to us.

Let’s crunch numbers here. To make a 3-layer round 9x13 cake, we’ll need three box mixes. Three box mixes x $2 each = $6 for your cake, plus miscellaneous ingredients like eggs or oil. But what about frosting?

For a three-layer cake, you’ll need about 3½ to 4 cups of icing. One Wilton box icing kit goes for $6.89 these days and makes 2 cups of icing. Let’s grab three of those since there’s no such thing as too much frosting. 3 Wilton royal icing box kits at $6.89 x 3 = $20.67.

So, we’re currently hovering around $27 for our cake. Let’s splurge and add a couple jars of food coloring (currently $2.69 per 1 oz jar from Wilton) and a beginner piping set to make pretty frosting roses. (Wilton 12-piece piping tip & decorating bag set, currently $10.99.)

Photo by @griceldasphotography

Total Cost:  

Approximately $43.04 for cake ingredients & supplies. Now, all you need to do is hone your icing skills with a little help from Youtube or baking TikTok.

5. …Or Branch out Your Baking Skills

Alternatively, if cake intimidates you, you could try a dessert bar at your wedding instead. They’re great for variety if you’re not a cake fan. They can also be super budget-friendly alongside or instead of your wedding cake.

Photo by @ryannwinnphotography

Fun options for a dessert bar include:

• Donuts - (Pillsbury Box Donut Mix, Approximately $2.42 Each.) 
• Brownies - (Betty Crocker Milk Chocolate Brownie Mix - Approximately $1.74 Each.)  
• Cookies - (Pillsbury Sugar Cookie Baking Mix - Approximately $2.37 Each.)

Don’t be afraid to ask for help here, either. If you have a brother or sister that knows their way around the kitchen, by all means, delegate. If they’re up for the task, what else is family for?

Total Cost:  

Depends on if you want to bake yourself or outsource to your baking-savvy family. But let’s estimate 3 brownie box mixes - since you can never have enough goodies. That’s approximately $5.22 if you’re keeping track.

6. Make Your Wedding a Potluck

Alas, humans cannot live on cake alone (I’ve tried.) But feeding a crowd can add up fast - even if you’re doing all the cooking yourself. So how do you make this budget-friendly? Try making your wedding into a potluck!

Your guests can bring their own dishes and create a buffet of options that everyone can choose from. Plus, you don’t have to worry about choosing a menu that picky eaters will approve of. They’re doing it themselves, so it’s all good.

Photo by @julietmaceyphotography

Total Cost:  

Well, it varies - depending on how many dishes you’d like to bring and what you want to serve. However, you could easily just provide dessert and call it a day, making this wedding element free to you.

7. Rent a Wedding Dress

A new wedding gown averages $1,800 from a bridal salon. But no one says you have to buy a wedding dress. May we introduce rental gowns?

Photo by @ryannwinnphotography

Rental gowns can start for as little as $50, depending on the style. Try looking around sites like:

• Rent the Runway 
•  Gwynniebee 
•  Style Lend 
•  Poshare 
•  Primavera Couture

The same goes for a groom’s suit - where you can find plenty of suit rentals at local shops, or via sites like:

• The Black Tux 
•  Generation Tux 
•  Stitch and Tie 
•  Menguin 
•  National Tuxedo Rental

Total Cost:  

This depends on the styles you choose. But according to Brides.com, wedding dress rentals average between $50-$600. Let’s budget $180 for a dress.

What about tux rentals? According to YeahWeddings, a rental tux averages about $135 in 2022. So, the running total for your wardrobe is approximately $315.

8. Channel Your Inner Influencer for Hair & Makeup

“May your day be as flawless as your makeup.” -Unknown

Beauty isn’t just a pain - it can also be expensive. Professional hair and makeup artists can cost $250 or more. For a $1,000 budget wedding, doing your own hair and makeup is likely your best bet.

Photo by @julietmaceyphotography

Lucky for you, there’s no shortage of bridal makeup and hair tutorials on Youtube and TikTok. It’s a good chance to put your influencer skills to the test. Just start early and spend plenty of time perfecting your look beforehand.

Total Cost:  

Free, assuming you’ve already got all your hair & makeup supplies on hand.

9. DIY Your Floral Arrangements

Ok, you’ve got your dress sorted. But what are you going to carry down the aisle? Thecost of wedding flowers from a florist averages $2,300. But there’s a budget-friendly solution for those that don’t want to sacrifice style - artificial flowers.

Faux flowers can look just as good as real ones. Individual foam roses can be 4 times cheaper than their real counterparts. And they come with bonus perks, like not wilting.You can DIY your floral arrangements and have them ready for the ceremony ahead of time. If you want to get creative, you can even recycle floral arrangements from your ceremony and use them in your reception - like putting bridesmaid bouquets in vases and using them as table centerpieces. Plus, you can keep your bridal bouquet afterward! Win, win, triple win.

Total Cost:  

This depends on how many floral arrangements and decorations you want for your wedding. But Ling’s Moment has DIY wedding flower packages that have everything you need to make tons of gorgeous floral arrangements, including flowers, greenery, and DIY tools. No trips to the craft store for you. Plus, you can save 40-50% compared to ready-to-use faux floral arrangements.

Check out the DIY White & Sage Kit. It’s a clean, neutral palette that’s perfect for any season – and it comes at a slight discount compared to other kits at $279.99. If you don’t want to make the recommended floral arrangements, you can just follow a DIY tutorial and do your own thing with the flowers.

10. Make Your Own Music Playlist

“Music is a higher revelation than all Wisdom & Philosophy.”  -Ludwig van Beethoven

Problem is, those higher revelations aren’t always affordable. A wedding DJ can cost $1,400, while a live band costs an average of $2,400.

Luckily, you can score a Bluetooth speaker rental for as little as $40. Just make a playlist of your favorite songs, then let it play as you dance the night away.

Or, if you have a talented family member or friend with guitar, piano, or violin skills - how cute would it be for them to play for your first dance? Even if they’re a little off-key, it could still be a sweet and special moment.

Photo by @julietmaceyphotography

Total Cost:  

Approximately $40 for a Bluetooth Speaker rental. Oh, and if you don’t already have it, let’s throw in a month of Spotify Premium for $10. You don’t want ads interrupting your dances.

11. Recruit a Student Photographer

Your wedding photos are how you’ll remember your special day. But those memories can cost an average of $2,400 if a pro photographer captures them.

So how do you get wedding pics on a $1,000 wedding budget? Try asking around at a local college or university to see if any student photographers would be interested in building their portfolios at your ceremony. Student photographers charge far less than their professional counterparts since they’re still gaining experience. And, you’ll be helping someone start their career!

Photo by @alybarnettphotography

Another option? Just ask your guests to snap photos with their phones. We live in an age where everyone is glued to their phones, so you might as well put it to good use!

Total Cost: 

 According to Fix the Photo, most student photographers charge between $50-120 an hour. On the other hand, your friends and family’s smartphones are free. So, the total cost for this element depends on how you want to play things. 

We’ll estimate $100 for two hours with a student photographer on the low end.

12. Budget for Miscellaneous Expenses

“If everything seems to be going well, you have obviously overlooked something.” -Steven Wright. 

Ok, here’s the thing. While you can plan your wedding budget down to a “T,” Murphy’s Law can still rear its head and throw off your plans. Miscellaneous expenses you might encounter at a wedding include:

• Table & Chair Rentals 
• Delivery Fees 
•  Cleanup Fees 
•  Taxes 
•  Transportation Costs

Photo by @karleemikkelsonphotography

While you can minimize potential expenses by DIYing everything and relying on friends and family, you never know what might crop up. Let’s set aside a small amount to account for potential emergencies and oversights.

Total Cost:  

Experts often recommend setting aside 10% of your budget for miscellaneous expenses. So, let’s put $100 in the piggy bank.

Conclusion - Your $1,000 wedding budget:

Ok, so what’s our grand total for this wedding day and ceremony? To recap our budget, we have:

• Venue - Free in Your Backyard 
•  Marriage License - Average $60, but Depends on Your State.  
•  Officiant - $50 to Tip a Family Member or Friend. 
•  Invitations - Free with Online Invitations. 
•  Wedding Cake - Around $43.04 for a DIY Wedding Cake.  
•  Other Sweets - $5.22 for DIY Brownies. 
•  Wedding Food - Free for a Potluck Dinner.  
•  Music - $50 for a Bluetooth Speaker Rental and Your Spotify Premium Subscription.  
•  Attire - $315 for Wedding Dress & Tux Rental. 
•  Flowers - $279.99 for Ling’s White & Sage DIY Flower Kit. 
•  Hair & Makeup - Free with Supplies On-Hand. 
•  Photography - $100 for a Low-End Student Photographer.  
•  Miscellaneous Expenses - $100 Because You Never Know.

Running total:  

 Drumroll, please. Our overall budget comes in at…  $1,002.26.

Ok, time for a teeny disclaimer. This is just an example budget with approximate expenses. Your mileage may vary.

That said, it’s totally possible to plan a wedding for $1,000 or less with a little time and effort and a lot of creativity and flexibility. And since you saved the equivalent of 27 new iPhones on your wedding day, maybe you can splurge on a post-honeymoon treat afterward!